Messy by Design
Realign with your Human Design — even when it feels like you’ve messed it all up.
A gentle, self-paced reset for when your energy feels off, and shame starts to creep in.
One-click access to “Messy by Design” — just $33. Self-paced, instantly available.
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One-click access to “Messy by Design” — just $33. Self-paced, instantly available. 〰️
This is your permission slip to explore Human Design without the pressure to get it “right” and with space to be wildly, imperfectly human.
🌙 I Was Trying to Make My Design Make Me Feel Safe
For a while, I treated Human Design like a formula.
“If I just follow what my chart says, I won’t feel lost again.”
But I still did.
I committed to things too quickly — before I had time to feel how they actually landed.
I tried to be consistent when my energy was clearly asking for space.
I second-guessed myself every time I changed my mind…
because I thought “alignment” meant stability.
Eventually I realized: being in alignment doesn’t mean you never wobble.
It means you know how to care for yourself when you do.
So I stopped looking for control…
and started looking for something gentler:
a way to come back to myself, without shame.
When the Path Feels Foggy — You Don’t Need to Rush to Clarity
Messy by Design is grounded in the idea of retroactive alignment — the practice of understanding your energy after a choice has been made… especially when that choice didn’t go how you hoped.
Because real life is messy! Sometimes we say yes too fast, or we simply just don’t know until later.
And that’s not failure, it’a just information.
This course helps you look back without spiraling — to gently explore:
What was happening energetically?
What part of you was trying to feel safe?
And what might alignment look like, even now?
Sometimes clarity doesn’t come right away — it reveals itself in the reflection.
Messy by Design helps guide you through that process,
so you can make meaning without shame and return to yourself with softness.
Does this sound familiar?
If you’ve ever…
🌀 Said yes when your body meant no—and felt the crash afterward
🌀 Regretted a choice and instantly spiraled into self-doubt
🌀 Tried to “follow your strategy” and still ended up confused or exhausted
🌀 Wondered why everyone else seems to have it together while you keep second-guessing
🚨 SPOILER: You’re not flaky, broken, or undisciplined.
You're just learning how to live in alignment—in real life, not the idealized version.
✨ Messy by Design teaches you how to reflect, realign, and move forward without shame.
Let’s not let Human Design be another impossible task we give ourselves - another tool we have to perfectly master. That’s not what this system is for, it’s here to help us remember how we work best, and create space to honor that… even after a detour.
Introducing:
Messy by Design
A compassionate path to understanding your Human Design—recognize, reflect, and recalibrate without the shame spiral.
HERE’S WHAT WE’LL DO INSIDE:
✅ Learn what Human Design actually is—and how it can support your real, messy, beautiful life.
✅ Understand your unique Human Design energy type and strategy, without trying to “get it right.”
✅ Explore the natural “messy moments” your design tends to create—and how they’re not mistakes, but invitations.
✅ Discover retroactive alignment—a step-by-step process to reflect, realign, and move forward (instead of spiraling in shame).
✅ Dive deep into your design through gentle teaching, guided reflection, and a meditation to help you integrate it in your body.
✅ Learn how to recognize when you’ve gone off track—and how to lovingly recalibrate in a way that honors your design and your humanity.
✅ Reconnect with your energy type’s unique magic, even when things don’t go as planned.
By the end of this course, you’ll feel more grounded in your Human Design—not as a rulebook to follow perfectly, but as a living, breathing map you can return to again and again.
You’ll know how to meet yourself in the mess. And realign without the shame spiral.
Realign with your energy, without the pressure to be perfect for just $33
Who is this for?
👉 You’re self-aware and reflective—but still find yourself stuck in cycles of burnout, second-guessing, or “why did I say yes to that?”
👉 You’ve tried to follow strategies, blueprints, or even your Human Design… but it still doesn’t quite feel like it’s working for you.
👉 You tend to spiral into shame or self-doubt after a misstep—and you’re ready for a more compassionate way to meet yourself.
👉 You crave a deeper understanding of your energy—and tools to realign when things feel off (without starting over).
👉 You’re ready to build trust in your own timing, pace, and decisions—even when they look “messy” from the outside.
👉 You want to explore Human Design in a way that feels grounded, forgiving, and real—not like a rulebook you’ll “fail” at.
If that sounds like you, you're not alone—and you're exactly where you need to be.
💫 Messy by Design is here to meet you in the mess, and guide you gently back to yourself.
What’s inside?
✨ Inside Messy by Design, you’ll find:
A gentle breakdown of each Human Design Energy Type
Step-by-step lessons to help you realign — without shame
Reflective journal prompts to understand your “off” moments
Soothing meditations to reconnect and soften self-judgment
Honest stories that remind you: you’re not alone
This course offers bite-sized, impactful guidance you can come back to anytime you feel off track—so you can realign right in the moment.
Module 0: Embracing the Mess 🌀
We start by unraveling the belief that getting it “wrong” means you’ve failed.
This module helps you reframe mistakes as part of the process—so you can stop the shame spiral and step back into self-trust 💫
Includes a calming meditation 🧘♀️ to soothe your nervous system and anchor that truth in your body.
Because real alignment doesn’t start with perfection—it starts with permission 💖
Module 1: Human Design 101 + Retroactive Alignment ✨
Get a simple, grounded intro to Human Design, without all the confusing jargon.
We’ll explore how your energy type works and introduce the concept of retroactive alignment 🔁; the practice of reflecting on past choices with clarity instead of shame.
You don’t have to get any of these changes right the first time (or second, third…or fourth) you just have to be guided back to yourself.
Modules 3–7: Deep Dives by Design Type 🔍
Each of these modules focuses on a specific Human Design energy type—so you can dive deep into your own design 💡 and start recognizing the patterns, messy moments, and misalignments that tend to show up for you.
You’ll learn:
✅ Common challenges + “oops, I did it again” moments for each type 😅
✅ How to retroactively realign and move forward with clarity 🧭
✅ A type-specific meditation to help you reconnect with your energy 💫
Want to understand the people around you better too? You can explore their types as well—because the quality of our relationships often determines the quality of our lives 🤝
These modules help you not only understand yourself—but also meet others with more compassion and grace.
Start feeling like yourself again for just $33.
Students are Loving Messy by Design!
Kelly said: “Redefining 'mess' has been so powerful. I used to think I was failing—but now I see it as part of the process. And that realization has brought me peace.”
Debbie shared: “Kitty’s Human Design offering gave me permission to feel without shame. I feel so much lighter this week.”
“You are not broken, you are human - it is messy by design! :-) I am so thankful that I took some time to delve into human design with Kitty. Throughout this course she was a wonderful teacher and guide - I learned a ton! Thank you!” - Amy
“This is unbelievably on point. I feel so SEEN. I want to spend 24 hours going deeper—it’s helping me understand myself on a whole new level.” - Abby
“Even though I’m already familiar with working with my Human Design and making aligned choices, Messy by Design brought a whole new level of clarity. I had been feeling exhausted and frustrated around a big project—wondering why, despite all my effort, it still felt “off.” This course helped me see that my frustration wasn’t a failure, but a signal. I realized I’d been pushing from misalignment, and what I really needed was permission—to pause, to feel, to trust my own timing.
The way the course invites you to embrace your energy type and release the pressure to get it “right” is incredibly freeing. The meditation especially was a turning point for me—so soothing and grounding. It helped me reconnect with my messy, intuitive rhythm and softened the disappointment I was carrying. I no longer feel like the effort was wasted—just redirected. This course is a must if you’ve ever felt stuck, off-track, or frustrated despite “doing the work.” It offers deep validation and gentle reorientation back to Self.”
-Andrea Tessier
Are you ready to experience this acceptance & validation for yourself?!
❓FAQ – You Might Be Wondering…
What if I don’t know anything about Human Design?
Perfect. This course was made with you in mind. You’ll get a simple, clear intro that explains exactly what you need to know—no jargon, no rabbit holes. Whether you're brand new or just HD-curious, you’ll feel supported every step of the way.
I already know my design—will this still help me?
Yes! Messy by Design goes beyond the basics and shows you how to actually live your design—especially after things feel off. Even if you’ve read your chart before, this course helps you apply it in real-time (and real mess).
What if I’m not spiritual or super into “woo”?
Totally okay. This course is grounded in self-awareness, nervous system support, and practical reflection. Human Design is just the lens—we’re focusing on you and your lived experience.
I’ve taken other Human Design courses—what makes this one different?
Most HD resources teach you how to get it “right.” Messy by Design teaches you how to come back to alignment when (not if) you go off track. This course is about real life, not perfection.
Is this live or self-paced?
It’s completely self-paced, so you can move through it on your own time—and return to it anytime you need a reset or realignment moment.
What if I’m busy or overwhelmed?
Then this course was made for you. It’s intentionally designed to be bite-sized and easy to digest, even if your schedule is full or your brain is foggy.
This is Human Design like you’ve never experienced it—gentle, practical, and made for real life (especially the messy parts).
🌿 You don’t need to be perfect to begin.
You just need the willingness to come home to yourself.
Start today for $33 — no pressure, just compassion.
💫 Who Messy by Design Is For
👉 You’re self-aware and reflective—but still find yourself stuck in cycles of burnout, second-guessing, or “why did I say yes to that?”
👉 You’ve tried to follow strategies, blueprints, or even your Human Design… but it still doesn’t quite feel like it’s working for you.
👉 You tend to spiral into shame or self-doubt after a misstep—and you’re ready for a more compassionate way to meet yourself.
👉 You crave a deeper understanding of your energy—and tools to realign when things feel off (without starting over).
👉 You’re ready to build trust in your own timing, pace, and decisions—even when they look “messy” from the outside.
👉 You want to explore Human Design in a way that feels grounded, forgiving, and real—not like a rulebook you’ll “fail” at.
From Burnt Out to Aligned, One Mistake at a Time
I’m Kitty—an ex–L’Oréal exec turned life and business coach, here to help women reconnect with their own rhythm and live in deeper tune with themselves.
As a Reflector (just 1% of the population), I spent years surrounded by Generators—at work, at home, in business—trying to keep up with rhythms that weren’t mine. I thought something was wrong with me for not being able to sustain the pace everyone else seemed built for.
Human Design gave me language for what I was already feeling.
Messy by Design gave me the forgiveness I needed to return to myself—imperfectly, gently, and with compassion for every misstep along the way.
Now, I guide others through that same process of unlearning, remembering, and realigning—because you don’t need to follow your design perfectly.
You just need a way to come back to yourself when things go off track.